There are a lot of signs that you actually may not know are an indication that you are about to cheat on your significant other. There exists a fine line between a close, platonic friendship and a full-blown emotional affair and if you are in a relationship, be careful not to cross it.

Here are a number of signs that you may not have suspected but which may indicate that you are about to engage in infidelity and cheat on your partner.

You Complain About Your Spouse To Others  Everyone does it sometimes either to friends or colleagues. But getting to rant about your relationship to others could be problematic, especially if you are expressing your feelings to someone you’re potentially interested in.

A lot of people tend to push their problems underground or talk to the other person instead of discussing it with the one person they should.

The truth is if you choose to discuss it with your partner, you may find the two of you becoming closer after talking about it with each other.

You Think A Lot About The Other Person In Their Absence
If you continually have thoughts about a friend and the life you can be living together, you will likely damage your primary relationship. If the right circumstances exist, emotional infidelity is all too common and convenient.

While there’s nothing wrong with enjoying a little attention from time to time, spending time with your partner and still thinking about the other person, means you will likely cheat on them.

You Start Lying And Keeping Secrets
Be it a lie of omission or outright lie, it is an indication of serious problems when you purposely avoid telling your spouse about the other person.

The question you should ask yourself is how would my spouse feel if they overheard a conversation between me and this particular friend? This should help you figure out for sure if things may be headed in a troubling direction.

You Compare Your Partner To Other People
Comparing your partner to someone at work is an indication you’re about to cheat. More so, you’re not been fair to your partner when you compare them to a work crush.

It could be you’re talking about how funny your coworker is, but it is important you know that the two of you are not trying to make a relationship work neither are you sharing the demands of house chores and demanding schedules.

Give your real partner credit for what they’re doing right and recognize that you may be giving the other person too much credit.

Thinking About The Other Person During Sex
Comparing your partner to the other person during sex is a serious red flag. There is a high chance that you may figure that your fantasies are keeping things hot in bed, but it is a risky gamble on the long run.

It has the ability to take away your sexual energy from the relationship.

What you should ask yourself is how would I feel if my partner thinks of someone else while having sex with me?

You’re Doing Something You Know You Wouldn’t Like Your Partner To Do
This perhaps is the ultimate litmus test to know if you’re about to cheat. If your spouse was behaving the same way, would it bother you? If the answer is “yes,” then you are on the verge of an emotional affair.

This points to the fact that you’re in a dangerous zone and if you choose to crossover, you could be letting go of something very wonderful for a fling.

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